I don't believe it is a "wasted vote", that's basically saying well if you don't vote for the winner you wasted it.
Did you ask me a question and then try to answer it for me?
Edit:
I don't think it's a waste of a vote to vote for who you want to win, or what you want to see happen. Especially if my vote is supposedly my voice to those people, if I'm displeased with the DNC / GOP, voting for them essentially tells that I'm supportive of them, which I am not. I will probably always seek a third-party candidate to vote for before voting for either of those two's candidates.