I understand it's probably hard for you to get it. I'd say it's much more difficult for a white person to find themselves in a situation surrounded by a bunch of black people than it is for a black person to find themselves in a similar situation (in this part of the country anyway). Trust me, I'm from Portland, live in Vancouver and I'm black. While I'm pretty much used to it (being around and among caucasians most of the time) every now and then I get a longing for "home". For me it's not so much that I "can't be around tons of white people", I'm fine with that. For me it comes down to being my "black self". That article pointed out a pretty good example. The white families that did not know what grits were or thought the catfish was bad. In my experience, I've felt the need to temper some of the "blackness" cause it will either confuse or scare (especially white females) people. This is just my experience, not saying all white people are a certain way, etc.