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You bought her roses before you had sex bro. You're the nice guy, probably because you thought this was the angle to get this chick.
 
Chris Craig said:
2 dates, always 2 dates....unless they give it up on the first....but no more than 2
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That's usually what it takes, but there are some good things that happen if you wait it out from time to time.
 
theprunetang said:
That's usually what it takes, but there are some good things that happen if you wait it out from time to time.
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Depends on if you want to get serious or just have some fun.
 
Natebishop3 said:
You could like.... you know....... talk to her? :dunno:
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Wow. Someone with some common sense.

Guys think they're the shit, but we're not. A little common sense goes a lot further than you realize. Grow a pair, talk to her.... You'll either find it's time to cut bait, or you'll have no time for this shit hole cuz you'll spend days knee-deep. You really can't lose. Unless you continue to spend your free time here.
 
Such a hilarious question that I will answer with another question.
Theres a specific number of dates? News to me.
 
MickZagger said:
I was taking this girl out for dates every weekend, she's a wholesome kinda-christiany girl I guess, but not sure if I wanted to get super serious with her without experiencing whats under the hood if you know what I mean. 5 dates and every time afterwards there would be these lame makeout sessions, but no knocking of the boots. She would always let it be known as soon as I would make a move that "you know were not having sex yet". I realize some of you are married, but for those who are not (or even married guys if you want to chip in, if you aren't too far out of touch). I think I'm done with this chick. I'm a 31 year old man, I'm not into taking you out to fine establishments and wine and dining you, only for these junior high make out sessions. So I'm like, next.....At this point I'm convinced she's a virgin.

Is this unreasonable of me? Am I being a prick for this line of thinking? I understand not every chick you're just going to bag on the first night, in fact I'm not even really into the town spunk bucket types.

How many dates until you can expect to get past like say, first fucking base?
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I have been Married for 40 years and our first date was April 4,1970. My wife said guys think sex is job one. My son and I agree. My 36 year old son said Women will give you "the look" before you can cruise into their space. Since your date declared a perimeter fence was established, I agree with you that she really does not want sex as a primary part of your "relationship". Guys think date and women think relationships.
 
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EL PRESIDENTE said:
I usually have the same M.O. every time.

1. First date is drinks on a weekday around 9pm at a chill lounge or kind of hipster bar. I'll try to go for a kiss at the end of the night.

2. Second date is a daytime beach date (usually day drinking at certain beach bars), where I try to get her back to my place to make out a little more or go further than that. I usually premise it by having them park at my place and we uber over since parking is hard at the beach.

3. Third date if I didn't close on the first one, I'll do a dinner on a Friday or Saturday then back to my place, that usually seals the deal. If not, just keep on repeating within reason.

Then the Slow Fade.
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Like your style..
What if she is non alcoholic? Do you have an alternative M.O.
 
MickZagger said:
I was taking this girl out for dates every weekend, she's a wholesome kinda-christiany girl I guess, but not sure if I wanted to get super serious with her without experiencing whats under the hood if you know what I mean. 5 dates and every time afterwards there would be these lame makeout sessions, but no knocking of the boots. She would always let it be known as soon as I would make a move that "you know were not having sex yet". I realize some of you are married, but for those who are not (or even married guys if you want to chip in, if you aren't too far out of touch). I think I'm done with this chick. I'm a 31 year old man, I'm not into taking you out to fine establishments and wine and dining you, only for these junior high make out sessions. So I'm like, next.....At this point I'm convinced she's a virgin.

Is this unreasonable of me? Am I being a prick for this line of thinking? I understand not every chick you're just going to bag on the first night, in fact I'm not even really into the town spunk bucket types.

How many dates until you can expect to get past like say, first fucking base?
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Zero. Always fuck before the first date. Or at least scope that head game.
 
MickZagger said:
Is this unreasonable of me? Am I being a prick for this line of thinking
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If she's the one, then yes...if you can't stop thinking about her and want a relationship then she's just holding out for that...if she's just a casual date that you'd like to sleep with......move on or get used to spending money just to go home and jerk off....5 dates with blue balls or a hooker who won't ask your name
 
The old joke is....you know why women smile in wedding photos? They're thinking about all the things they'll never have to do again....if she's cut you off before getting started, doesn't bode well for after the vows.
 
Okay, what you gotta do is hang out with her and her mom again and like talk them into a duo beej. I've seen this play out nicely in a 'movie'.
 
Invite her to go to the beach for the weekend.

If she asks for separate rooms then wait a day and call it off.

If she asks for separate beds then go but you should talk with her.

If she doesn't mention the sleeping arrangements then just be normal and take things naturally.

Going out of town can take the pressure off of things.
 
Maybe the problem is that she's turned on by the big brown van and the brown shorts, and the after-work you isn't so exciting.

You need to get her into the van during work hours.

barfo
 
I just really badly wanted to screw this chick because she had a body that was banging and just seemed so pure and untouched. Its whatever though.

On a separate note, would you guys ever sleep with a co-worker that is on the management side of things? Aka the evil enemy? This office chick at my work is jones-ing for the D. Its a big no-no. Which makes it kinda hot.
 
Longtime married guy here too. I dated a lot and waited a long time before I got married. What I would say is that, more broadly speaking, you two likely have different values. Depends on what your looking for. But 5 dates tells you something more about her than she's just prudish I think, and that alone is a big issue.

Second question - Do Not fool around with management at work unless you are OK with getting canned.
 
stampedehero said:
Like your style..
What if she is non alcoholic? Do you have an alternative M.O.
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Yeah. Usually I have to just do dinner instead of a bar. If I do diner I like to go to tapas/shared plates kind of joints, it kind of builds more of a connection.

Things like walking around Venice is still in play because you don't need alcohol, there are shops and other assorted things to look around at.

I'll still drink though.
 
barfo said:
Maybe the problem is that she's turned on by the big brown van and the brown shorts, and the after-work you isn't so exciting.

You need to get her into the van during work hours.

barfo
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I've got a delivery for you, and it's my dick. It's bound to work!
 
barfo said:
Maybe the problem is that she's turned on by the big brown van and the brown shorts, and the after-work you isn't so exciting.

You need to get her into the van during work hours.

barfo
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all the office girls at my work wanted to bang the UPS driver.

The Fed Ex guy..not so much.
 
SlyPokerDog said:
Invite her to go to the beach for the weekend.

If she asks for separate rooms then wait a day and call it off.

If she asks for separate beds then go but you should talk with her.

If she doesn't mention the sleeping arrangements then just be normal and take things naturally.

Going out of town can take the pressure off of things.
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too much effort for someone you're not fucking. just spend the money and energy for someone new at that point.
 
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