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<div class="quote_poster">Shard Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">All I can say is, **** bitches, get money. I just got out of an 8 month relationship that was as serious as an 8 month relationship could be. Serious plans of a future and stuff. So no matter what u do, if u like/love a girl... just. remember that all girls have some sort of hidden agenda or some need that no one can fulfill. It's all about finding a girl that goes with the flow... cuz high maintenence girls will never work. Really, if I were someone right now that isn't sure about jumping in a relationship, I wouldn't. Seeing how most people that post here are teenagers, just let it flow and you'll get a bride a little later, just focus on macking girls while u can. I know from experience and from people I know that no matter how much u trust a girl and what she says to you, she will lie about one important thing no matter what or dump you because of some mundane detail about her life you fail to realize.

-- End of relationship rant.</div>

LOL great points, completely agree with everything you said, especially the bolded part because that's happened to me and a lot of people I know as well.

Basically, at this point and time for me, the motto is that "girls come and go". And no matter how much you may think you and another girl are going to be together forever in highschool, you aren't because, like Shard said, there's always a hidden agenda. Either you have a hidden agenda as the guy, or the girl has one, but one of you is going to screw up somewhere. Which is why high school relationships never work out.

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As for "never having felt about a girl this way before", that feeling usually ends when the girl shows her true colors sooner or later. But that's just from my experiences.
 
<div class="quote_poster">Shard Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">All I can say is, **** bitches, get money. I just got out of an 8 month relationship that was as serious as an 8 month relationship could be. Serious plans of a future and stuff. So no matter what u do, if u like/love a girl... just. remember that all girls have some sort of hidden agenda or some need that no one can fulfill. It's all about finding a girl that goes with the flow... cuz high maintenence girls will never work. Really, if I were someone right now that isn't sure about jumping in a relationship, I wouldn't. Seeing how most people that post here are teenagers, just let it flow and you'll get a bride a little later, just focus on macking girls while u can. I know from experience and from people I know that no matter how much u trust a girl and what she says to you, she will lie about one important thing no matter what or dump you because of some mundane detail about her life you fail to realize.

-- End of relationship rant.</div>

Respect. Listen to this advice.
 
<div class="quote_poster">NTC187 Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">Dude, I'm 19, lol, puberty has been and gone
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i was reading a few weeks ago that puberty hits for some males in their early 20's.
 
<div class="quote_poster">Junoon Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">As for "never having felt about a girl this way before", that feeling usually ends when the girl shows her true colors sooner or later. But that's just from my experiences.</div>

Well this isnt the first time, its the first time in a while. And the last girl I felt this way about, never ended up showing her "true colours" either, but then that was a strange situation, because it was like we were going out, but we never officially were. But yeah, I've never had any bad dating experiences, so I cant really relate with you guys, but I know to keep my witts about going in to somthing like this.
 
<div class="quote_poster">NTC187 Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">Well this isnt the first time, its the first time in a while. And the last girl I felt this way about, never ended up showing her "true colours" either, but then that was a strange situation, because it was like we were going out, but we never officially were. But yeah, I've never had any bad dating experiences, so I cant really relate with you guys, but I know to keep my witts about going in to somthing like this.</div>

Nah, it's different for everyone I think. Some girls I've dated are cool before, during, and after dating, while some just turn into the biggest bitches, who lie to get thier way. The ones that I actually fell for have turned into the latter kind while the ones that I simply liked have been cool. Varies from person to person.
 
<div class="quote_poster">Junoon Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">
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Just keep talking to her man. If she kept looking over at you the first day, that kinda says something...unless you were staring her down the whole time and she was giving you the "stop looking at me" look lol.

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Oh yeah, I fiorgot to mention, on the way home, she drove past (I was walking as I just live around the corner from work and she lives a bit furthur on down the road) and she stopped and gave me a ride, so I dont think she hates me, lol, if she had of kept on driving then maybe yeah, lol.
 
<div class="quote_poster">Shard Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">All I can say is, **** bitches, get money. I just got out of an 8 month relationship that was as serious as an 8 month relationship could be. Serious plans of a future and stuff. So no matter what u do, if u like/love a girl... just. remember that all girls have some sort of hidden agenda or some need that no one can fulfill. It's all about finding a girl that goes with the flow... cuz high maintenence girls will never work. Really, if I were someone right now that isn't sure about jumping in a relationship, I wouldn't. Seeing how most people that post here are teenagers, just let it flow and you'll get a bride a little later, just focus on macking girls while u can. I know from experience and from people I know that no matter how much u trust a girl and what she says to you, she will lie about one important thing no matter what or dump you because of some mundane detail about her life you fail to realize.

-- End of relationship rant.</div>

Great post he dropped knowledge on this post.
 
<div class="quote_poster">Shard Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">All I can say is, **** bitches, get money. I just got out of an 8 month relationship that was as serious as an 8 month relationship could be. Serious plans of a future and stuff. So no matter what u do, if u like/love a girl... just. remember that all girls have some sort of hidden agenda or some need that no one can fulfill. It's all about finding a girl that goes with the flow... cuz high maintenence girls will never work. Really, if I were someone right now that isn't sure about jumping in a relationship, I wouldn't. Seeing how most people that post here are teenagers, just let it flow and you'll get a bride a little later, just focus on macking girls while u can. I know from experience and from people I know that no matter how much u trust a girl and what she says to you, she will lie about one important thing no matter what or dump you because of some mundane detail about her life you fail to realize.

-- End of relationship rant.</div>

one word: jaded
 
<div class="quote_poster">NTC187 Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">Oh yeah, I fiorgot to mention, on the way home, she drove past (I was walking as I just live around the corner from work and she lives a bit furthur on down the road) and she stopped and gave me a ride, so I dont think she hates me, lol, if she had of kept on driving then maybe yeah, lol.</div>

dude is gettin laid
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<div class="quote_poster">Quote:</div><div class="quote_post">...no matter how much u trust a girl and what she says to you, she will lie about one important thing no matter what or dump you because of some mundane detail about her life you fail to realize.</div>

Agreed 110%. Back when I was like...18-19, I was in a relationship with this girl for a little over 2 years. Things were serious...or atleast I thought they were. We were making plans and all that. Then for some fu**ed up reason, the b**c chooses to "end the relationship and take a break". Why? No damn reason. She had no reason. After me, that girl had 4 other dudes....within 1 year. So it's like damn, I'm glad I found out sooner rather than later.

So point being...all them are the same. They're all sweet and cute at first. But man...just be careful. You don't wanna get into a relationship that's serious... then 2 days later things are fked up. You don't need that right now..you gotta pay attention to school and sht (assuming you're going to school). That bride will come...and as Shard said, just mack on em for now.
 
You know what sucks...when a girl's coming onto you but you're not interested in them.
 
^ Yeh thats 100% true. I just say "get the fu*k away from me you dumb b*tch." It's a natural reaction I have, I don't know why.
 
<div class="quote_poster">Laker_fan Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">^ Yeh thats 100% true. I just say "get the fu*k away from me you dumb b*tch." It's a natural reaction I have, I don't know why.</div>

That's a damn good reaction.
 
<div class="quote_poster">Laker_fan Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">^ Yeh thats 100% true. I just say "get the fu*k away from me you dumb b*tch." It's a natural reaction I have, I don't know why.</div>

lol Damn, I guess I'm way too nice then.
 
<div class="quote_poster">monty001 Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">So point being...all them are the same. They're all sweet and cute at first. But man...just be careful. You don't wanna get into a relationship that's serious... then 2 days later things are fked up. You don't need that right now..you gotta pay attention to school and sht (assuming you're going to school). That bride will come...and as Shard said, just mack on em for now.</div>

I know what you're saying, but I mean I really care about this girl, and I'm ready to have somthing steady, I mean I dont plan on getting married to this girl or anything (that will work itself out if it becomes serious enough) like that, but I really like her, and I want to be with her, if its going to be somthing thats not going to workout, then thats somthing I need to find out for myself, I cant really not just go after her based on some of you guys bad relationship stories, lol, as I'm sure there a plenty of guys on here who are married, engaged or have been in good relationships.

<div class="quote_poster">I-Miss-MJ Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">dude is gettin laid
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lmao, although thats not a huge priority right now, hopefully
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<div class="quote_poster">Shard Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">All I can say is, **** bitches, get money. I just got out of an 8 month relationship that was as serious as an 8 month relationship could be. Serious plans of a future and stuff. So no matter what u do, if u like/love a girl... just. remember that all girls have some sort of hidden agenda or some need that no one can fulfill. It's all about finding a girl that goes with the flow... cuz high maintenence girls will never work. Really, if I were someone right now that isn't sure about jumping in a relationship, I wouldn't. Seeing how most people that post here are teenagers, just let it flow and you'll get a bride a little later, just focus on macking girls while u can. I know from experience and from people I know that no matter how much u trust a girl and what she says to you, she will lie about one important thing no matter what or dump you because of some mundane detail about her life you fail to realize.

-- End of relationship rant.</div>

This is a quality post. Until a woman turns eh, say 25, she's only going to be a good lay. Even if she's your girl, 97% of the time she's going to find a way to screw you. Serious relationships are worthless until later life, I've got to imagine, or maybe all of them are worthless. Or maybe Shard and I just suck at being in a relationship. But I doubt that's the case
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<div class="quote_poster">NTC187 Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">lmao, although thats not a huge priority right now, hopefully
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brother please, we are all men here.
 
<div class="quote_poster">Schaddy Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">This is a quality post. Until a woman turns eh, say 25, she's only going to be a good lay. Even if she's your girl, 97% of the time she's going to find a way to screw you. Serious relationships are worthless until later life, I've got to imagine, or maybe all of them are worthless. Or maybe Shard and I just suck at being in a relationship. But I doubt that's the case
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man tell me about it, i was in a relationship for just over 2 years. She wanted me to go out more (because I am not that out going) so we went out more but apparently it was not enough and we ended it.

One month later she has a new boyfriend...some guy who was hitting on her when we were still together...things that make you go hmmm
 
<div class="quote_poster">Schaddy Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">This is a quality post. Until a woman turns eh, say 25, she's only going to be a good lay. Even if she's your girl, 97% of the time she's going to find a way to screw you. Serious relationships are worthless until later life, I've got to imagine, or maybe all of them are worthless. Or maybe Shard and I just suck at being in a relationship. But I doubt that's the case
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My girlfriend's exact reasoning for breaking up with me was, "i didn't feel a connection anymore." Why? "I don't know." Young girls don't know what they want and they base way too much of their decisions on feelings. I know most of us have heard our dads or an elder male in our lives talk about how not to trust women and blah blah... and most of us probably brushed it off like, no way, not all girls are like that, i'm not stupid enough for fall for that. But i'm becoming more and more convinced that the stuff they tell us is the truth. When I told my dad about the break up, the first thing he said to me, no consolation or anything was, "Just another bitch... I didn't like her anyways."

Listen to these men.
 
I agree with monty. Ntc, he doesn't want you to not go with her, he is saying just watch out, because he believes most girls are like that. But neways good luck. So when are you gonna ask her out?
 
Yeah, well I always keep my wits about me, no matter what it is I'm doing, or what situation I'm going into. I have to find out for myself if this is going to work out or not.

Not sure when I'm going to ask her out, was thinking about doing it tonight if shes working, but I'm not sure if she is or not, I still need to find out if she has a boyfriend or not aswell, lol, just so I dont look like a tool.
 
<div class="quote_poster">Shard Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">"Just another bitch... I didn't like her anyways."</div>


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she giving you a lift she ain't got no man...unless he ain't satisfying her either way you're golden.
 
Thats a good point.

Well she didnt work tonight, but I rushed around the office trying to find the schedule to see when shes on next, turns out tomorrow night, wish me luck fellas
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I'll keep you updated on this.
 
<div class="quote_poster">NTC187 Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">Thats a good point.

Well she didnt work tonight, but I rushed around the office trying to find the schedule to see when shes on next, turns out tomorrow night, wish me luck fellas
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I'll keep you updated on this.</div>

Is it sad that I am consistently coming here to check out the progress...as you can tell I am single.
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lmao, I dont think so, I'd be doing the same if I was in your position.
 
<div class="quote_poster">NTC187 Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">lmao, I dont think so, I'd be doing the same if I was in your position.</div>

You wouldn't wanna be me, I'd ruin it somehow.
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Ok I wanted to get your guys opinions on this, the thing is, I'm not afraid to ask this girl out, I'm just not sure what context I should ask her in, especially since really I hardly know her.

Sould I just make it sound like more of a casual thing? Or do you think just go for it and make it sound a bit more personal?
 
go for the casual first....if you get the date, then that's when you make it personal....also while on the date have R&B music playing in the car the whole time...it will do you some good.
 
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