And I think Shirley's argument is that sometimes the most compassionate thing to do is to force someone to stand on their own two feet.
When someone has two broken legs, forcing to stand on their own two feet isn't the most compassionate thing to do.
I've read Shirley' blog post four times now - desparately trying to find anything compassinate or even reasonable about it. and no matter how hard I try, the more I read it, the more he ends up looking like an ignorant, cold hearted, jerk.
I understand the desire to not throw good money after bad on the rebuiling effort, but if that was Shirley's message, the timing and the way he said it were flat out awful. His blog was posted on January 26 - at a time when victims were still being pulled from the rubble. The immediate needs for the victims of the earthquake, were search and rescue, medical attention, food and drinking water - not rebuilding. If Paul Shirely's blog convinced people NOT to donate at that time, he could have very well cost people their lives. I don't see anything compassionate about that. He's free to not donate, but using his influence to encourage others not to donate, at a time when people were dying and suffering, seems very irresponsible to me.
Blaming the victims for their living conditions smacks of someone who has lived a very privileged life and thinks the victims CHOSE their circumstances. Is Haiti poor? Yes. Were many of the vicims living in shantys? Yes. Given the choice, I'm sure the people killed or injured in the earthquake would have preferred to be weathing and living in better built 3000 sq, ft. McMansions. For people born into that squalor, that simply is not an option. It's like Shirely has no clue that people in an improverished 3rd world country do not have the resources to simply pack up and move to a better location. He blames both the people of Haiti and the tsunamai victims for
choosing to live in a location that was struck by natural disaster. I'm sure most of those victims didn't even know the risks, and if they did, didn't have the resources to do anything about it. To blame the victims, while they are dead and dying, seems exceptionally cold and callus.
Concerning rebuilding... that discussion whould happen only AFTER the immediate needs of the survivors are taken care of. If Shirely would have waited a month or two and made a statement that any new structures built with relief funds should be required to meet certain minimum building code standards to help prevent future deaths, I think his message would have been much better received - and might actually save lives in the future. But, that's not what he said. Instead, this is his message to the dead and dying:
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As we prepare to assist you in this difficult time, a polite request: If it’s possible, could you not re-build your island home in the image of its predecessor? Could you not resort to the creation of flimsy shanty- and shack-towns? And could some of you maybe use a condom once in a while?"
Of course, since Paul Shirley has vowed NOT to assist, he really has no right to even ask such a question in the first place.
Mind you, I disagree with his sentiments, but I will support his right to say it free from fear. So, what happens to the next person who has an unpopular opinion? Should they be afraid to write it because they're worried about being fired? What about the editor? Someone reviewed it on ESPN before it was posted. Should they be fired too? It's the idea of self-censorship I find dangerous.
The blog was not posted on the ESPN web site. It was posted on a site called flipcollective.com. So, no editor at ESPN had the chance to review, or approve of Shirley's comments before they were posted.
You seem very gung ho to protect Shirley's rights. What about ESPN's rights. Do they not have the right to chose who they do and don't employ? Do they not have the right to protect the value of their brand name? Do they not have an obligation to their shareholders to protect their investment in the company? Why are you so concerned about Paul Shirely's rights, but so quick to ignore or dismiss ESPN's rights?
Paul Shirley was hired by ESPN to blog about his experiences as a marginal basketball player bouncing around from team to team and league to league. I doubt if there was anything in his job description that included being as total dickhead to the dead and dying. Of course he's entiteld to his opinion, and can continue to express it and post it on his own site, or on flipcollective or any other site that wants to pay him for his contributions. But ESPN has absolutely no moral, ethical, contractual or legal obligation to keep him on the payroll when his comments damage the value of their brand. ESPN has rights, too.
BNM