You still don't get it. Its HOW you challenge others opinions and then how you react when people respond to your challenge in kind is all.
For example you think i'm making this serious when i'm trying to point out to you how you made it serious from the get go assuming I was being argumentative.
I'm just showing you how you sound like you are serious, but you are not, but others can do that to, but then you take THEM serious.
Its all good. Already moved on.
For the record, I said grow up, actually slamming myself as an old fart. You are 26. Not 12.
See how you took me serious but I wasnt?