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Actually, the Doctor was misquoted in PapaG's post (shock!); this was indeed the first time Congresswoman Giffords opened her eyes.But to the event. These are my thoughts for those interested in actually, you know, having a reasonable sharing of views. A couple of people have already made it clear they do not. In fact they seem to be more angry about what Obama said than they are about the actual shooting. I hope that is an incorrect impression, but it's definitely the one I'm getting.
OK. First, this was a memorial service, not a funeral. It's a distinction. A funeral is where the survivors gather to mourn. A memorial service, and I've been to some that made this explicit, is to celebrate the life of the person/persons. And in this case also to send well-wishes to the injured and salute the heroes. I think this is why President Obama spent so much time describing the six people who died. One was a Federal Judge, but the others were "ordinary Americans", all ages, men and women, different faiths, but all people who should be celebrated for their lives and for their love for others. I admit at first the cheering sounded "off" to me, but then I realized, no, it was appropriate. Because one crazy person with a gun can and does destroy individual lives, but this event showed that no such person can destroy America, as long as we don't allow him (or her) to do so. This was about reclaiming what is best in the country, correcting where we need to, honoring those who represent what is best.
Even at an actual funeral, levity is not always out of place. When my mother, may she rest in peace, died, my siblings and I all gave eulogies. My brother recalled that when he was a boy and had chores, our mother would always leave him a Hostess cupcake or Ring-Ding. This brought shouts of laughter, since, as we all know, as a man my brother is a total vegetarian, organic, whole grain, health nut who would not touch a Hostess cupcake with a 10 foot tofu pole.
I also think of the President's comment about words that heal and words that hurt. And that is why I thought Governor Brewer gave a good talk. I say that although I have loathed her for so many reasons. An unpopular appointed governor, she jumped on immigrant-bashing bandwagon to save her career, spread lies about beheaded bodies in Arizona desert, cut off the tiny amount of funds going to transplants so that, unlike imaginary "death panels" people have actually died while she falsely claimed transplants don't work, and promoted a state law allowing anyone to carry concealed weapons virtually anywhere. Despite my feelings about her and her policies, I still liked her speech. I most sincerely hope she takes her own words to heart and engages in a discussion on immigration that does not scapegoat and at least finds a way to restore transplant funds.
I also think of how President Obama told Daniel Hernandez sorry, no matter what you say, you are a hero. (Hernandez, from his body language, struck me as a rather shy person, then here he is between the President and a former Supreme Court justice on national TV, probably thinking the Spanish equivalent of oi vey!) Now, anyone who ran into bullets and saved a Congressperson's life deserves praise whoever he/she was. But think of it. Who have been the scapegoats in culture wars? Latinos and gays. (The odious Patrick Robertson just blamed the New York snowstorms on NY being too gay friendly and the odious Fred Phelps is picketing Christina Green's funeral, both claiming approval from god.) Hernandez, a gay Latino, could have said "screw it, I don't want to be part of a country where I'm second class citizen and blamed for everything". But no, he said this country can be better than its prejudices.
Honestly, would those slamming Obama prefer that he went to a party fundraiser instead, as the Speaker did? Or that he issue a scripted video proclaiming himself the true victim and reviving anti-Semitic slurs as a former governor did? Or say that Giffords was to blame, as the chair of the state Tea Party did? Or say that the true lesson of the attempted assassination of a Jewish Congresswoman is the need to convert to Christianity, as Erick Erickson did? Words that heal and words that hurt.
And finally, are those who are as SLyPokerDog said, crapping all over this, actually listen to the event? Did you learn anything from the event, and this past week?
Um, no, and this tripe coming from you is rich. You may be the most divisive poster, in terms of separating people into various stereotypical groups, on this board. Gender, politics, sexuality, etc. etc.
Thanks for the laugh, crandc. Let's see if you learned a lesson, because from the unproductive incivility that I read in the bolded paragraph, you're the same partisan hack you've always been.
You just took a big smelly shit on this thread as well. Congrats.



