so to try to get a better perspective , you think its okay for him to chase people around belittling them because some members he has a good relationship with joke with him about his wife and lawn mowing?
When people tell you,
repeatedly he doesn't fucking mean it, yes, we expect you to move on and realize
he doesn't mean it.
If anything, you should just get tired of it because it was predictable. But this all stemmed from when you came in and he flipped you shit about being a "newbie" and you got bent out of shape over it. Despite many of us saying "ignore it, he's just being a dork". Similar to how jlprk says random shit that no one takes seriously. or how barfo says random shit and it's part of his charm (not that he doesn't say things in a serious tone at times).
I don't participate in those low level jokes and never have. But because others do, you think it justifies him chasing people he has conflicts with around the forum trying to instigate drama?
Really?
No, it's called PERSPECTIVE. He's the guy who is constantly having people joke about sleeping with his wife, and it doesn't bother him. Never ONCE has he reacted in any manner other than realizing
it's a joke. So of all the jokes he gets lofted at him, do you honestly think he's going to not react to that, but than randomly be mean spirited to new people, or instead of just cracking on on people in a joking manner, he's gonna be some kind of bully?
That's just not how he is. But you already decided that he's 100% a jerk, and no matter what anyone who
actually knows him tells you, you 100% made up your mind already.
This is the perspective you wish some would get?
that its okay for someone to rail on someone else because that person can take a joke from yet another person???
No, that's where you're missing out on the perspective of he gets made fun of/ripped on far worse than anything he's ever done. And he *never* responds to it in kind. So maybe you're overreacting to it.
You instantly complained that he attacked you (I'm paraphrasing this, so please don't do a deep internet search to prove you never said this) because you were a newbie at one time.
Thats some seriously interesting perspective you got there.
Ill remember that. Makes total sense.....
You notice that my comment got a fair amount of likes? Because people agreed.
It's so exhausting having to have mods explain to you again and again to let it go and to ignore him and then you claim you won't react anymore to only have you react about him in a situation that has nothing to do with you at all and you constantly bring up the same arguments.
Just stop talking about him, stop complaining about him, stop stop stop.
I mean really, aren't you an adult? Find a new hobby, because this one is really not healthy for you.