Look, I don't give a fuck if you like me or not. Or how I treat people on here. I just made a genuine offer to give you an experience I thought you'd like. I'm not trying to be your friend or take you out on a date.You choosing not to come check it out because of something typed on a website, that's shallow if you ask me. If you let somebody on here calling people a rook or son bug you like that, that's on you bro. Hope the term "bro" isn't offensive.
This has nothing to do with liking you or not. You're actually okay, as long as you're not talking down to people. Nothing in my post said anything about you other than I wouldn't want to watch a game with you.
Calling someone son, or rook is a way to demean others. To put yourself above another person. It's an insult.
I know for a fact
for years you've been asked multiple times by mods to stop doing this. Yet you continue to do it.
That's not on me, that's on you.
Multiple people have told you to stop. But you keep it up.
That's not on me, that's on you.
Why would I want to meet someone in person. When they've shown on a forum they think so little of others?
It's a forum, it's the internet.
Due to people on this forum having kids, who've been enrolled in the program I assist running. I must choose my words wisely. As if I didn't, my job could be affected
very easily.
If I went around calling people 'Son, Kid, Rook, the N word' on this forum. Then it got back to my boss, you know what would happen? I do, I'd be unemployed.
I wouldn't get to say, 'it's just a forum/the internet.'
Why? Because these things are disrespectful. I am in a very public position, there is no room for error when you're visible throughout the community.
Hell I even sent a pm out a few months ago to a member giving them information in a basketball program I run. They've enrolled their son. I meet this forum member & their son on the 7th. We will see one another every week for 6 weeks.
I mean for real, this dude? I grew up in my neighborhood being called, "kid, son,bro,fam,man,yo, even the N word". And this guy is offended I called somebody son
You grew up being called those names, cool story.
Now that you're an adult.
How often do people YOU DON'T KNOW AT ALL call you Son or Kid?
I'll answer. Never.
You didn't call somebody son. You called me son.
To which results in my immediate response of.
giving you the finger.
But I have to be careful what I say.