Have you looked to see the ratio of homer to non homer on this board? I would actually declare that there are more non-homer (myself included) than homer. That being said, I call bullshit when the poster is making it bullshit to start a rise instead of just being a non-homer.
You really need to step back, take off your confirmation bias glasses, and realize that your posting style leads to more aggressive responses from people that actually agree with YOU, but not how you present it.
When I went off on CJ last night, I expected aggressive responses. When I got them, it didn't send me into victim mode. That is something you need to learn. It's not them being a homer, its you not realizing what power your words are creating. They are two VERY DIFFERENT things, and when you realize that, you won't feel like a victim on here.