Cool. Discussions about this subject are difficult. My opinions are based on my personal experiences, travels, trends, and more. As a man of over 60 years old, I am witnessing more intolerance, than I have ever seen in my life.
Who decides what is incorrect? Is it someone's right to judge someone else and the labels they use", based on their own view of the world? Who set those rules? Is it their group of friends or the social circles they run in? Are they naïve enough to think that their social circles are more important? Or more right?
There is a very telling way to see. Intent. I'll give a non racial/political example, although it is gender based.
I was raised to open doors for other people, especially women. It was not taught to me as a way to look down on women because they needed physical help, but as a courtesy. My mother who taught me this, was one of the toughest, most independent women I have ever known. At the age of about 19, a woman that I opened the door for, got in my face for belittling her by assuming I felt she needed help. Frankly, I was shocked. Over time, I figured out what was missing. Intent. She could have avoided it all together and stopped/waited, and said no thank you. Or, she could have asked for intent, "Why are you opening the door for me". No, she just judged, and spewed her anger and her intolerance.
My feelings are still where they were. I don't believe in groups of people who think that they decide what is socially right or wrong, without their judgement including intent.