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Part of me is jealous of the tenacity that some of you have when it comes to these utterly pointless and never ending pissing contests.

I just don't have the patience or time to keep arguments going for more than like 90 minutes. This shit is going on for a LONG time.

Hell, I don't even remember who I dislike one day later, you guys are holding onto shit like a woman.

My ex-wife would stay mad so long she would forget why she was mad at me; we are talking days. It was so weird. I stay mad about two minutes then I feel bad for getting mad.
 
Just what exactly do you want from staff here?

He didn't reply to you.

He has stayed out of your video thread.

He has not insulted you.

All he did was ask about the video.

For you and OB to get that mad at him and staff is ridiculous.

There is no way we can or will make a rule that HCP is not allowed to speak of you or about you.

We're not going to monitor his every post to see if it may vaguely be about you.

We are trying to bring some peace to the forum but you guys are not helping.

I moved 57 posts out of Bone's video thread in the main forum.

I did that in support of your thread, the work you put in, and to keep that thread on topic.

You have the attention of staff.

I have directly asked both of you two to stop engaging him when you are upset with something he posts and either flag the post or contact us via PM. Let us handle it.

Instead you guys both get all upset and insult him.

How can we talk with him about breaking the rules when you guys are doing it too?

I saw his post asking about the video and talked to him about it this morning. I was on top of it before you were.

But there was no reason to delete that post. That post is not insulting.
We've been through this again and again and again and again amd again. There's been people here that love to create drama. It makes the forum worse. I've constantly heard "we're dealing with it" or something along those lines, yet it never changes. You still have people who go out of their way to start shit others (there's two specific people). You still have people who personally attack others who they know they can't joke with, but they still try to pass it off as a "joke".

Then you tell me to use the "report feature" so you guys can handle it. What has that done in the past? Nothing. But Im not helping? Everything I've said is reactionary. The only people you have to blame is the people who go out of their way to start drama. So once you get them to behave and stop starting drama with me, then there won't be a single problem. Dint blame me.

Itd be nice if yall could figure out a way to stop going out of their way to personally attack someone they have grudge against, but I guess you don't have to do anything. But if the mods dont fix the instigating, they shouldnt complain about a reaction.
 
Part of me is jealous of the tenacity that some of you have when it comes to these utterly pointless and never ending pissing contests.

I just don't have the patience or time to keep arguments going for more than like 90 minutes. This shit is going on for a LONG time.

Hell, I don't even remember who I dislike one day later, you guys are holding onto shit like a woman.
Have you ever had someone on here insult your family and create a fake account just to attack you as an "experiment"? Have you ever had some personally attack you or talk shit about you every single day with nothing done? Honest question.

The forum is a big part of my life. Formed a lot of great relationships and had a lot of great experiences because of it. Therefore, I really want the BS to stop.
 
Have you ever had someone on here insult your family and create a fake account just to attack you as an "experiment"? Have you ever had some personally attack you or talk shit about you every single day with nothing done? Honest question.

The forum is a big part of my life. Formed a lot of great relationships and had a lot of great experiences because of it. Therefore, I really want the BS to stop.
It's kinda weird that a mod is basically belittling people for spending time in their forum. I'm sure that's not what he meant but it sure comes across that way.
 
We've been through this again and again and again and again amd again. There's been people here that love to create drama. It makes the forum worse. I've constantly heard "we're dealing with it" or something along those lines, yet it never changes. You still have people who go out of their way to start shit others (there's two specific people). You still have people who personally attack others who they know they can't joke with, but they still try to pass it off as a "joke".

Then you tell me to use the "report feature" so you guys can handle it. What has that done in the past? Nothing. But Im not helping? Everything I've said is reactionary. The only people you have to blame is the people who go out of their way to start drama. So once you get them to behave and stop starting drama with me, then there won't be a single problem. Dint blame me.

Itd be nice if yall could figure out a way to stop going out of their way to personally attack someone they have grudge against, but I guess you don't have to do anything. But if the mods dont fix the instigating, they shouldnt complain about a reaction.

"They shouldnt complain about a reaction"

You realize that you just said you arent going to be accountable for your actions and its our fault you cant control yourself.

We are not in control of you. Stop blaming others for not being able to control yourself.
 
It's kinda weird that a mod is basically belittling people for spending time in their forum. I'm sure that's not what he meant but it sure comes across that way.

No man...no...why would you even say that
 
Have you ever had someone on here insult your family and create a fake account just to attack you as an "experiment"? Have you ever had some personally attack you or talk shit about you every single day with nothing done? Honest question.

The forum is a big part of my life. Formed a lot of great relationships and had a lot of great experiences because of it. Therefore, I really want the BS to stop.

If someone on here had insulted my family (hey, I fucked Mrs HCP!), created a fake account to attack me as an 'experiment", and personally "attack" me and talk shit about me every single day (etc), and it was a message board...I'd leave the message board because there's so much more to life than it.
 
If someone on here had insulted my family (hey, I fucked Mrs HCP!), created a fake account to attack me as an 'experiment", and personally "attack" me and talk shit about me every single day (etc), and it was a message board...I'd leave the message board because there's so much more to life than it.
So you're advising Bones to leave the forum?
 
"They shouldnt complain about a reaction"

You realize that you just said you arent going to be accountable for your actions and its our fault you cant control yourself.

We are not in control of you. Stop blaming others for not being able to control yourself.
If someone on here had insulted my family (hey, I fucked Mrs HCP!), created a fake account to attack me as an 'experiment", and personally "attack" me and talk shit about me every single day (etc), and it was a message board...I'd leave the message board because there's so much more to life than it.

So you're advising Bones to leave the forum?
This is what we get from the fucking Mods man. One who wont admonish yet another personal attack but instead claims I "cant control myself" because I respond 10% of the time I'm personally attacked by the guy they let roam free. The other is essentially advising me to leave because they cant keep the forum under control.

But I need to "rely on the mods". Yeah. Right.
 
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"They shouldnt complain about a reaction"

You realize that you just said you arent going to be accountable for your actions and its our fault you cant control yourself.

We are not in control of you. Stop blaming others for not being able to control yourself.
Not if HCP isnt going to be held accountable for his.

Stop blaming HCP for talking shit to me for the umpteenth time when Ive asked him to leave me alone? Do you even know what you're saying?
 
This is what we get from the fucking Mods man. One who wont admonish yet another personal attack but instead claims I "cant control myself" because I respond 10% of the time I'm personally attacked by the guy they let roam free. The other is essenty asvising me to leave bevause they cant keep the forum under control.

But I need to "rely on the mods". Yeah. Right.

So, here's the thing. You're an adult. You just claimed someone was "personally attacking" you, talked shit about your family, created a fake account (etc). This is middle school drama shit.

I think you're just wanting attention for your video, and think this is somehow a way to get your name into the lexicon a little more.

I mean, shit! You said wouldve left the forum if you were me!
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I would have, because it would've made this place not worth going to. But I also would've realized that maybe I have some growing up to do first.
 
Listen, its not even a big deal if he doesnt stop. There will just be a shitstorm every now and then. Dont complain to me, Im not instigating it. I ignore it more than anyone should have to. I've tried taking the high-road and ignoring this guy constantly talk down ti me (and others), and nothing is done. Instead it has to be some big spectacle in order for the mods to do their jobs (its not personal, mods. I just think you couldve handled this better and it wouldve helped avoid this shit).
 
Listen, its not even a big deal if he doesnt stop. There will just be a shitstorm every now and then. Dont complain to me, Im not instigating it. I ignore it more than anyone should have to. I've tried taking the high-road and ignoring this guy constantly talk down ti me (and others), and nothing is done. Instead it has to be some big spectacle in order for the mods to do their jobs (its not personal, mods. I just think you couldve handled this better and it wouldve helped avoid this shit).

4 words.

Put him on ignore.

2 more words.

Ignore him.

It's really that simple.
 
So, here's the thing. You're an adult. You just claimed someone was "personally attacking" you, talked shit about your family, created a fake account (etc). This is middle school drama shit.

I think you're just wanting attention for your video, and think this is somehow a way to get your name into the lexicon a little more.


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I would have, because it would've made this place not worth going to. But I also would've realized that maybe I have some growing up to do first.
What the fuck are you talking about? I average 5K views a video. I dont care if me vlog gets 1,000 views or 1,100 views. How this even helps with that I have no idea.

You have absolutely NO idea what youre talking about. As a mod, you shouldnt be making assumptions and completely made-up claims about posters.

All I want is for people to stop trying to cause drama. Thats it. But nah, the mods want to make up bullshit to attack me with instead of listening, so the problems continue.
 
4 words.

Put him on ignore.

2 more words.

Ignore him.

It's really that simple.
You know he starts a lot of important threads (Around the NBA - Monthly edition, etc) to get back at those who have him on ignore. It creates more problems then it solves.
 
What the fuck are you talking about? I average 5K views a video. I dont care if me vlog gets 1,000 views or 1,100 views. How this even helps with that I have no idea.

You have absolutely NO idea what youre talking about. As a mod, you shouldnt be making assumptions and completely made-up claims about posters.

All I want is for people to stop trying to cause drama. Thats it. But nah, the mods want to make up bullshit to attack me with instead of listening, so the problems continue.
@julius's post is pretty sad. Is a mod going to police their own here?
 
I think you're just wanting attention for your video, and think this is somehow a way to get your name into the lexicon a little more.


I would have, because it would've made this place not worth going to. But I also would've realized that maybe I have some growing up to do first.

Wow. This is such a bullshit take it's hard to believe. Not a word of admonishment for the actions that you admit would make you want to leave if done to you.
 
We've been through this again and again and again and again amd again. There's been people here that love to create drama. It makes the forum worse. I've constantly heard "we're dealing with it" or something along those lines, yet it never changes. You still have people who go out of their way to start shit others (there's two specific people). You still have people who personally attack others who they know they can't joke with, but they still try to pass it off as a "joke".

Then you tell me to use the "report feature" so you guys can handle it. What has that done in the past? Nothing. But Im not helping? Everything I've said is reactionary. The only people you have to blame is the people who go out of their way to start drama. So once you get them to behave and stop starting drama with me, then there won't be a single problem. Dint blame me.

Itd be nice if yall could figure out a way to stop going out of their way to personally attack someone they have grudge against, but I guess you don't have to do anything. But if the mods dont fix the instigating, they shouldnt complain about a reaction.

No, we've had one discussion privately recently about problems and that was about you and Cup.

I asked you to flag the post.

I asked you not to insult them back.

I told you very nicely and very clearly that when you insult back it limits what can be done.

If it comes down to banning someone from a thread I would have to ban everyone who traded insults.

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Now knowing that, knowing that I asked you to flag posts, knowing that it was happening in a thread that was important to you what did you do?

You waited 6 mins at 10pm and started throwing out personal insults. No flag, no waiting for staff to take care of it, you just go at it.

Platy when he saw the posts started deleting personal insults.

The first post he deleted was yours.

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I found out about the drama in your thread, after I thought that we had come to an understanding, and based on our private conversation I should have banned you and HCP from your own thread. Right?

Instead I moved all the posts out of your thread so it could stay on topic.

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So staff is doing something.

You just don't like what we're doing.

And that's fine. Happens all the time.

...

Now I'm going to ask you again, if you object to what someone posts to you flag the damn post or send me a PM. You sent me a PM when you had a problem logging into the site just a few nights ago. I responded to you fairly quickly right?

You know I like you and I'm supportive of what you're trying to do. Please flag the posts.
 
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Wow. This is such a bullshit take it's hard to believe. Not a word of admonishment for the actions that you admit would make you want to leave if done to you.

When you hit your 40's, you realize certain truths. One of those truths is this.

It is not worth the effort to complain about things like you did when you were in your 20's. Let's just say if someone "personally attacked" me (and did the other things BJ mentioned) I wouldn't want to stay around anymore.

There is sooooooooooooo much more in life that is more important to me than a message board, and if that message board was becoming a PITA, I'd man up and leave.

I swear to god this place is fucking middle school again. I left middle school almost 35 years ago, it's so god damn boring to read through this kind of shit again.
 
You know he starts a lot of important threads (Around the NBA - Monthly edition, etc) to get back at those who have him on ignore. It creates more problems then it solves.

And I have closed threads and made new ones when I have seen that happen so all can see the thread.
 
You know he starts a lot of important threads (Around the NBA - Monthly edition, etc) to get back at those who have him on ignore. It creates more problems then it solves.

If someone who "personally attacked" me was starting threads, I'd either ignore them and move on. Because if it's a REAL and ACTUAL problem, one that seems to be giving you issues, you can deal with it or not.
 
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