I dislike Trump and I know he lied repeatedly about his inauguration crowd size and I don't care. Lots of Trump's lies are inconsequential.
Some of them aren't, though.
I think your question for Trump to ask would have been fine. My answer that I'd draft for Comey would be as follows: "Sir, if you don't know whether that's ok, I respectfully suggest that you resign from office right away, before you get yourself deeper trouble. You are in way over your head. And the answer is no, it is not ok."
Not my words, but here's a definition:
barfo