Jordan had a talk with Kobe about 'making things happen'. If that means being adamant about the direction of the franchise, trades, personnel, etc, then so be it. LeBron made/chose both of his situations. Duncan was willing to be called out by Pop for his shortcomings. Curry was okay with having a superstar come in that was widely considered to be the better player and ended up winning the Finals MVPs.
Dame did suffer from horrible management, but MJ would say he allowed it. Allowed Neil to be an idiot, instead of going to Paul and demanding that it wasn't good enough. Dame is not responsible for Neil being an idiot, but I'm guessing if he wanted him gone earlier, he would have been. Same with Stotts. Dame was adamant about how great a coach Stotts was and when Paul wanted him gone after the Pelicans disaster, it is widely speculated that it was Dame who saved Terry's job. If not Dame, who else had the power to talk Paul out of it?
Dame is a TREMENDOUS player, but he left his career in the hands of an idiot, and a very average coach for far too long. So I agree he was poorly served. I also think Dame, as the franchise, a community pillar, had the ability to do more about his own situation.