Actually, in restricted free agency, after their first contract..They sign a contract with a different team then they are forced to stay in a place they don't like if it's matched. So, technically, they don't even sign with the incumbent team by their own free will.
Forcing your way to specific teams isn't new either. Check out a BUNCH of QBs who refused to play for teams that drafted them, for instance.
Also in the game of soccer, players force there way out all the time. Neymar, Ronaldo... both in recent memory. Fanendo Adi as a timber.
I also never told you to feel bad. I don't care how you feel. You're the one who is quite opinionated over a sport and apparently have your panties in a bunch over where players play because you think money makes up for personal happiness.
You're the entitled one thinking you're owed something for supporting a sports team. You aren't owed anything, including parity.